Husband, Wives, and Porn

In many of my talks and คลิปเสียวwritings, I “bust” husbands for their lack of sexual maturity, their lack of development in male/female interaction, their lack of understanding of how to create a happy marriage relationship, and how to lead a happy family life. In particular, I talk about how much more important it is for a husband to be aware of what the negative effects of porn are on their children and others in their family if he is viewing it.

But there’s another aspect of pornหลุดแอบถ่าย that deserves far more attention than Husband, Wives, and Porn.

Porn is a war being fought in many places, and the casualties are being prepared by our society as well as each other. By far the largest casualties are the children.

These websites are extremely powerful, andxxx they are driving men to divorce and the divorce rate is sky high.

How?

These sites are being used to replace marital ดูซีรี่ย์ออนไลน์ฟรีsex with pre-prepared food, such as video games. In many cases these men are not even having sex with their wives. They are playing pre-prepared video games to satisfy themselves.

As simple as it may sound, many men have ดูซีรี่ย์commit adultery simply because they didn’t get involved in pornography when their wives were away or when they had a “lie” that they told themselves was a lie.

Doesn’t that make you feel guilty?

I know it does.

But here’s the thing…it’s your body…it’s your body that is causing these men to lose their grip on reality. And when your wife or man in a marriage is using porn, he/she is losing out on the real thing. They are losing out on sex with their wife or man.

So when a man or woman is using porn, the reaction is “usually” positive. The addict causes the body to believe that its duty is to fulfill certain needs and wants. Before its duty to fulfill certain needs and wants, the body will get a false sense of security from the pleasure that the drug provides. So the body no longer seeks out real sexual pleasure but seeks out the pleasure of the drug.

Now, just because you are reading this, does not mean that you are a porn addict. But if you are addicted, then this article could be a very important reminder of how serious this addiction is.

So why are we talking about porn addiction and not just a simple description of a few sadumbs?

Well, to be honest, a simple description of porn addiction is not enough. It’s like a little ensnaring hook enough to drag you down into the darkness of abyss. To cope with this emotional trouble, your adrenaline and dopamine levels increase. This makes you unable to maintain a healthy relationship with the opposite sex. This is why porn addiction is a dangerous thing. It can’t be cured, and won’t be until you get yourself into a mental hospital and obtain therapy for your porn addiction.

There are 3 stages of this addiction. Most of you will experience stage one and be gradually moving to stage two. However, if you are addicted to porn, there’s no need to be in stage two. That’s because stage two is the one where the consequences truly kick in. Your brain has been altered to the point that you don’t think in logical thoughts. Anything that you consider to be reality is only for entertainment purposes. You define reality with your emotions because your brain is altered.

If you are stage two, then obviously there’s trauma attached to this altered state. You might have woken up one morning and felt sexually gratified from an adult sex chat that you never thought to see coming. This might be the result of one of your many fantasized sexual objectives. You know in your head that this is how you should be.

Or perhaps you fall asleep and realize that you have an overwhelming sense of guilt. You might tell yourself that you are a bad person. If every time you see this girl you view it as another chance to try and win her heart.

This is a progressed form of masturbation. During this process, the parts of your brain that process fear and anxiety are enhanced. This is the foreplay stage. You focus on the goal of sex. You’re focused on trying to put her in the mood.

But you can’t wait forever. Once you make love with your girl, you realize that you have orgasm potential inside of you. This knowledge presents a great challenge to you. You will want to release this onto your wife but you’re worried that you’ll ruin the moment. So, sure enough, 10-15 minutes later, you have premature ejaculation.

What’s going on here?

Exploring your triggers

Understanding what is going on with you is the first step.